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It's a given in the dating scene that women naturally align themselves with guys who occupy a higher place on the proverbial food chain. These guys are typically referred to as the ALPHA MALES.
As you probably know, they lord over other men and just smack of social value, which is like Kryptonite to an AFC. The PUA on the other hand has it running through his veins.
This type of man is looked up to by many, and all the women in the immediate area are irresistibly drawn to him. What's ironic is that your veritable "top dog" doesn't necessarily have the looks of a celebrity, the body of a weightlifter, or the wealth of a CEO.
In fact, lots of materially and politically potent men don't have the slightest clue to generating genuine and lasting attraction. Women might think they'll fall for a good -looking guy, but keeping her around takes MORE than that.
Let's go over some of the things that will make you more than just an insignificant blip in a woman's consciousness:
Talking the talk
Your voice is a powerful tool you can use to make women putty in your hands. Think about it - a well-modulated manner of speaking is absolute dynamite to women.
While not of all of us are gifted with a deep set of vocal cords, you can still pull this off. You just have to avoid making some key mistakes that could undo your game.
It's a common tendency to speak in a wimpy, high-pitched voice when we're nervous or flustered. As a result, you'll sound girly, and lack confidence.
MAJOR TURN-OFF!
Don't let your voice betray your nervousness. Practice with the way you talk so you don't give away that you're not as collected as you seem.
Here's a suggestion: get accustomed to controlling your voice through some daily exercises you can repeat several times. Stop pulling your voice out of your throat; instead, make it register deep down in your gut.
Pushing your voice out from the abdominal area adds power. But don't try speaking in this manner right off the bat. Do some humming or even singing exercises so that the sound you produce comes from your diaphragm.
Get used to speaking properly all the time until you're no longer "faking it". As such, having a pleasant voice will become a natural part of your personality. Ultimately, you'll feel more confident in the fact that your deep, evenly paced and masculine voice will greatly affect someone's reactions, specifically with the ladies.
Walking The Walk
Of course, your voice should also match the way you move. Body language is a huge, make-or-break factor that will INSTANTLY tell a woman what kind of guy you are.
Is an alpha male fidgety? Does nervous energy manifest strong leadership qualities?
Definitely NOT. A high-value guy sets himself apart by using his body to express his winning attitude.
He's relaxed and at ease, but never leans into anyone's active space. In the same way, a PUA would automatically blow his approach if he ever leaned into a woman's "territorial bubble" because that signifies that he's out to impress her. That's not how an alpha male rolls.
Think about how it looks from her perspective. You're waiting for what she has to say, and your voice is too weak that you have to lean towards her just to be heard. That's hardly the mark of a high-value male.
If anything, you should stand with your feet at shoulder length apart. Not too wide that you look overly cocky, but not too close that you seem sorry for the space you're occupying.
As our mothers, teachers and countless figures of authority have told us in the past, slouching is for losers. A weak, rounded posture will cause "WIMP" to be written all over you.
Also, make large, sweeping movements that appear natural, as opposed to quick gestures that make it look like you're living in a stop-motion animation TV show (watch "Gumby" to see what I mean).
This also applies to the way you walk, which should be SMOOTH and evenly paced. Let your arms swing slightly, and don't allow them to flail around.
Alpha Male Stylin' 101
Hygiene and fashion form another important aspect of maintaining your social value. Essentially, what women want is a guy who's MATURE enough to groom and dress like a confident man.
Self-respecting women won't bother wasting any time with a man who doesn't pay attention to DETAILS. For example, if you had poorly managed teeth or reeked of body odor, do you think she'll want to know what the rest of you is like?
Don't think that any guy is the exception to good grooming and dressing sensibly. No man is going to land a real relationship if he places himself above this simple dating prerequisite.
Even if you're interesting, witty, and have a great sense of humor, a woman can't appreciate all of that under a nasty exterior of unkempt and unwashed hair, or if you dress like a post-apocalyptic refugee.
The overall way you present yourself is what matters here. Don't let a horrid sense of hygiene and style get in the way of meeting the dolled-up, sweet smelling women that attract you.
It's only fair that you meet them halfway. It's not like you'd be interested to go out with someone who was too lazy to brush her teeth, shower or shave her legs, am I right?
So make it a habit to be always meticulously CLEAN. If you ever want a beautiful woman to snuggle up against your body, you're gonna have to make that EFFORT.
Here's a basic, top-to-toe list of things to watch out for:
- Consult with a reputable stylist on which hairstyle suits you in terms of age and body frame. He/she will be able to figure out if you're better off growing out your hair, or if the clean-cut look is more appropriate.
- A dentist can clean your teeth and advise you on best dental practices to keep your smile looking bright. Also, don't forget to brush after every meal, floss often and use mouthwash.
- Moisturize on a daily basis. I understand that there are many guys out there that think moisturizing is the first step on a slippery slope to femininity, but trust me, women like guys that look after their skin. If you are around the same age as her, it pays to look like her boyfriend rather than her father. A guy that looks after his assets is one that is going to continue to look good as he gets older, rather than looking worn down and weather-beaten.
- Bathe once or twice a day at the very least. There's no excuse for smelling bad, so pay attention to the areas that need adequate washing. Use a good deodorant, and if necessary, keep a spray deodorant in your car or work bag for times when you need a little freshen up. Like I said, a woman won't be enticed to get in close proximity with someone who doesn't smell good.
- Get a friend to give you an unbiased opinion on the kind of clothes that will suit your body type. Have him or her check out the stuff in your closet to figure out which clothes you can keep in active duty or retire permanently. If that's not an option, drop by a decent clothing store and have the staff guide you on which shirts, belts, pants and shoes will match you. A few basics that you can mix and match will set your wardrobe up really well, and enable you to mix new pieces with some of the older stuff you have saved. It may set you back a few hundred bucks, but you'll thank yourself for doing it later on.
- Lastly, get off your ass and get some exercise. You don't have to look like Dr. Manhattan from "Watchmen", but you should at least show the world you're making an effort to maintain your body and keep fit. Knowing that you're taking care of yourself can greatly boost your self-confidence, lift your spirits, and help keep things in place. Not only will you look good, you will feel good! While fitness clubs are ok, try signing up for places that are fairly populated. Not only will you keep fit, you can also enhance your social skills by interacting with the fellow patrons (which include women, of course!).
So there you have it. In essence, putting an attractive man together is all about walking and talking like an alpha male.
.as well as dressing and grooming yourself in a way that naturally elicits RESPECT from others.
You'll definitely look at yourself differently, and the women around you will follow suit and take you seriously.
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Have you ever worked with, or have friends who just seem programmed to be at ease with themselves.but are drop-dead gorgeous at the same time? Has it blown your mind to think how EFFORTLESS it is for some women to be themselves while attracting men left and right??
Are they just blessed with dumb luck, or are they onto something you're not?
Let's tackle a few basic traits that generate surefire attraction with the opposite sex:
# 1: Treat yourself like a prize, and he'll follow suit
An irresistible woman knows that she's worthy enough of a man's time, affection, and most of all, RESPECT. She never seeks out a man because she feels like a relationship will save her.
In fact, her life is so complete that she doesn't need a guy to fix her or make her whole. A sassy woman is perfectly fine being single for the moment because she knows that Mr. Right will come along in due time.
There isn't any need to go into a panic or lower your standards just to make room for a guy who won't treat you the way you should be. More importantly, you don't try attracting a man out of DESPERATION, because that isn't exactly an endearing quality.
It's absolutely essential to be a self-referenced woman who doesn't seek a man out of social pressure. She allows a man into her life because he makes her happy and adds to her personal growth.
Her relationship doesn't define her life, but rather enriches it. The problem with a lot of women is that they often date a man for the former reason and not the latter.
As a result, they'll act needy and clingy because they're deathly afraid of being alone, even if it means lowering their standards and putting up with any guy that comes along.
Acting out of FEAR is never the basis for a healthy, long-term relationship.
Simply put, self-respect is done by placing value on yourself, and that in turn will prompt a quality man to treat you in the same manner. Otherwise, an attractive woman has no problems showing him the door and moving on with her life.
# 2: Just say "NO" to mind games
The folly of manipulating a guy is that whatever happiness you'll get out of toying with his mind will be SHORT-LIVED. Once you've dealt him your best cards and he's given up chasing after you, then there won't be much reason to stick around.
So don't bother adhering to a bunch of stupid rules. There's plenty of harmful advice floating out there which are usually created out of specific experiences that don't apply to everyone. You might hear that you should NEVER kiss on a first date, or that you must go to bed with him on the third one.
Please, these so-called rules are made by bitter and jaded people who want to protect themselves from getting burned again. Following these will only result in game-playing, and that is just another word for "manipulation".
As I've just said, deception has no place in a healthy relationship, and anything based on a lie is bound to crumble in the future. That's why it's more important to be a balanced woman instead. That means no playing "hard to get", nor should you present him with absolutely no challenge at all.
An attractive woman is who she is partly because she knows how to strike the middle ground: she doesn't mess with a man's head, but neither is she easily won over.
# 3: Get your head out of the clouds
You know, a lot of relationship problems are caused by having unrealistic standards. When you get caught up in fantasizing about IMPOSSIBLE stereotypes, you're keeping quality men out of your life.
That's because NONE of them will be able to measure up to the ideal (read: ridiculously perfect) man living inside that fantasy world of yours! Seriously, you should learn to temper your expectations with a sense of practicality.
In a parallel universe, all of the men you'll meet have big arms, ripped abs, stunning chiseled looks, and inexhaustible wealth. You might think that meeting ALL of those qualities are the ticket to a great relationship, but it's so much more than that.
Ask yourself: will I be able to have a happy relationship if my man didn't have (insert trait here)? If so, then you can either make your standards more realistic or cross out that specific item completely. If not, then keep it on your list and move on to your other standards.
Pare down your list and stick to the essentials. In twenty years from now, will a flawless physique still be important, as opposed to emotional maturity, faithfulness, or honesty? Think about that for a while.
You're not living in a movie here - this is the real world you're in. Don't wait around for a valiant knight to come barging in and rescue you from the drudge of your daily life.
You'll have to do that for yourself. That takes us to the next irresistible trait, which is to.
#4: Derive fulfillment and satisfaction from your life, not a relationship
While a sassy woman will make room for a worthy man in her life, she's not about to turn her schedule upside-down just to accommodate his preferences. She has the guts to go on living the way she was before they met.
It's very important not to lose focus on the other aspects of your life when you get into a relationship. As we've discussed, your life should revolve around what works best for YOU.
Always have your priorities sorted and don't develop the habit of dropping everything else just for him. While it's ok to occasionally move things around for your guy, always leave time for yourself as well adequate room for personal growth.
That's the problem with a lot of women - once a guy steps into the picture, everything goes haywire. They forget their family and friends, slack off at work and basically drop off the face of the Earth.
That's not a healthy way to live your life. Rather, a relationship should enhance the quality of your life and INSPIRE you to do even better.
Going back to what I mentioned before, whether or not you have a boyfriend at the moment shouldn't affect the big picture. Balance your priorities by keeping him in the loop but not to the point where he's already disrupting your daily existence.
Referring again to our middle-ground metaphor, learn to go out of your way when appropriate but at the same time, avoid appearing too scarce. Don't hide from him on purpose just to see how far he'll chase after you.
You're better off getting a dog if you're into that sort of thing. Remember what I told you about playing games!
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